Thursday, May 26, 2011

You can't blame gravity for falling in love

It has been three years since Andrew and I were an item. Looking back, it seemed so difficult for both of us. We were young and we didn't know what we wanted in life. But one thing for sure, we both knew that we are here to stay in each other's life.

For our 3 years anniversary, we decided to make it simple and we both think it's best to not exchange gifts cause we're still saving up money to buy more furnitures for the house. So we had a simple dinner at Thai Thai. It's my third time dining there and I really like the ambience, and not forgetting their awesome tom yam soup! :)

Since we're not getting anything for each other this year, you know I wouldn't let him go that easy! I decided to tweak the anniversary tradition a bit. I found this couple survey online & I really wanted both of us to do it so we can go crazy laughing when we read back the next time. I'll be sharing this at the end of the blogpost!

Just a little shoutout to my confidante & my best friend:
You are really something, Mister. Never a time I was actually bored of you and you have always made it a duty for you to make me laugh even when I am feeling blue. I have never once regretted my decision to be with you and it amazes me that up till today, it still excites me just to know that I get to sleep in with you on a weekend, have a meal with you or just bumming around at home. Happy anniversary, my lover. To our many tomorrows and forever more.

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My version:

Tell us about the first time you met and your first impression of him/her:
: We met at the beach at 2am in the morning and he was pretty much a quiet person who doesn’t speak much.

Tell us something funny about him/her:
: He giggles weirdly but I think it’s cute! :P

What’s a weird habit or quirk that s/he has?
: He likes to poo before he showers! ALL THE TIME. How is that possible?? T_T

What makes him/her happy?:
: Food, singing sessions and me!

What makes him/her sad?:
: Personal stuffs.

What makes him/her angry?:
: He’s hardly angry.. Prolly for personal reason!

What excites him/her?:
: Singing sessions.

What’s s/he like at home?:
: Slothhhhhh! :P

What’s s/he like at work/school?:
: He’s dedicated to what he does and responsible.

Describe his/her room:
: He lives in with me. So his room is my room and it’s definitely organized and clean! :P

Do you know who s/he hates the most?:
: Yes, but it’s not my cue to tell. :P

Have you met his/her exes?:
: Nope.

Do his/her parents like you?:
: I hope so!

What’s the first thing s/he would do or say if s/he fell down and scraped their knee:
: ERGHHHHHH. Actually, he has never fallen down before so I’m only assuming!

What would s/he do in an emergency situation with other people involved?
: He would make sure he is there to attend them and help them in anyway he can.

Which shop would s/he spend the most time at in a shopping mall?:
: CD shop.

What would s/he have for a typical breakfast?:
: Anything that requires 1 minute of cooking time. No more & no less.

Where would s/he want to go for dinner?:
: Anywhere that serves quick and good food.

What kind of movie would s/he choose at the cinema?:
: Thriller, suspense .. everything but chick flick! :(

Describe his/her taste in music:
: Chinese songs or any songs he can sing to.

If s/he wasn't going out with you, who would s/he be going out with?:
: Nobody because I’m possessive this way! :P

What item in his/her wardrobe would you like to burn:
: HIS VEST. GOOD LORD, throw it away already!

What is s/he good at?:
: Taking care of my dog.

What is s/he totally horrible at?:
: Making the bed.

What’s something about him/her that is annoying/infuriating?:
: The time he takes to think before he replies!! I get so tensed.

What’s something that you two fundamentally disagree on?:
: Anything when his laziness and my OCD gets in our way.

What’s something that you two agree whole-heartedly on?:
: Definitely on food!

Is s/he possessive?:
: Not really.

Why would s/he succeed in life?:
: Because of his determination to get up and do better each time he falls.

What is the coolest gift that s/he has ever given you?:
: The house! Our house! :D

What is s/he obsessed with?:
: Youtube!!! Youtube is his answer to life! GOOD LORD! -.-

Why would s/he be dangerous?:
: Prolly his job! Hehe..

What does s/he avoid at all costs?:
: Traffic jam! He’d rather bunk at home and be lazy.

What does s/he spend the most money on?:
: My dog, of course!

Describe his/her typical Sunday:
: We wake up at 11am and find a nice play to have lunch and chill the day away. We will bring our dog out for walk in the evening.

Tell us about a time s/he looked absolutely gorgeous:
: When he was all groomed up for his brother’s wedding.

What’s something about him/her that would surprise all of his/her friends?:
: His extrovert side of him.

What do you love most about him/her?:
: His patience.

The biggest lesson you have learnt from loving your partner:
: He taught me a whole new level of commitment.

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Andrew's version:

Tell us about the first time you met and your first impression of him/her:
- At a beach in Brunei. Some time around March 2008. Very bubbly, talkative..

Tell us something funny about him/her:
- Whenever she takes her meal, she always slip one thing or two out of her cutleries and drop it on, like, everywhere.. The frequency is just stunning! =)

What’s a weird habit or quirk that s/he has?
- Definitely her OCD, it drives me crazy, sometimes.

What makes him/her happy?:
- When Louie greets her whenever she’s back from work, or when everything is in order or when she gets to satisfy her very sudden food cravings.

What makes him/her sad?:
- When i’m off working late and not being able to spend the night with her while she’s still awake.

What makes him/her angry?:
- Stuck in the jam?? Or when I pissed her off?

What excites him/her?:
-

What’s s/he like at home?:
- Wife-like attitude, neat freak.

What’s s/he like at work/school?:
- She’s fitting in quite well.

Describe his/her room:
- Decent.

Do you know who s/he hates the most?:
- It depends, whoever pisses her off the most.

Have you met his/her exes?:
- Not all.

Do his/her parents like you?:
- Sure, why not??

What’s the first thing s/he would do or say if s/he fell down and scraped their knee:
- Swear or curse on the floor. And then laugh about it hrs later.

What would s/he do in an emergency situation with other people involved?
- Call dad/mom/me.

Which shop would s/he spend the most time at in a shopping mall?:
- Places where they sell clothes.

What would s/he have for a typical breakfast?:
- It depends.

Where would s/he want to go for dinner?:
- It depends.

What kind of movie would s/he choose at the cinema?:
- Chick flicks.

Describe his/her taste in music:
- None.

If s/he wasn't going out with you, who would s/he be going out with?:
- Couldn’t care less.

What item in his/her wardrobe would you like to burn:
- Nothing much. We’re sharing the same wardrobe.

What is s/he good at?:
- Cooking and baking. Most importantly, making me smile. =)

What is s/he totally horrible at?:
- Controlling her emotions.

What’s something about him/her that is annoying/infuriating?:
- When she’s demanding and uses unkind words.

What’s something that you two fundamentally disagree on?:
- Hmm nothing I’d say. Everything is mutual.

What’s something that you two agree whole-heartedly on?:
- That our son will definitely a wreck of the house if left unattended.

Is s/he possessive?:
- What do you think? *wink*

Why would s/he succeed in life?:
- Stability??

What is the coolest gift that s/he has ever given you?:
- Hand phone. I love you!!

What is s/he obsessed with?:
- Cleanliness.

Why would s/he be dangerous?:
- She’s not. She’s my honey bear. =D

What does s/he avoid at all costs?:
- I have no idea..

What does s/he spend the most money on?:
- Definitely clothes.

Describe his/her typical Sunday:
- She would make breakfast in the morning to lure me out of bed, or just simply to wake me up.. *pfff*

Tell us about a time s/he looked absolutely gorgeous:
- When her eyes are watery.. Yeah, as weird as it sounds.

What’s something about him/her that would surprise all of his/her friends?:
- That she’s very strong in terms of personality and wouldn’t take no for an answer for what she think is right.

What do you love most about him/her?:
- She put her friends ahead of her. Very thoughtful.

The biggest lesson you have learnt from loving your partner:
- Never take too long to think. Fast execution. And being the most responsible and loving boyfriend she can ever hoped for.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY, BABY!!